Until this time, whenever we got angry, we knew exactly who was at fault? We kept blaming the person, object or the situation for our anger, and see where we have reached. Anger has become so much a part of our lives that it comes 'naturally' to us. Let us look at this from a slightly different perspective.
- Your child did not finish the homework - you get disturbed and blame the callous attitude of your child
- Your spouse did not wish you on your anniversary or birthday - you feel that he or she does not love you the same and that your marriage does not have the same spark,
- Someone bangs your car - you feel like banging the other person.
- Your new car gets a scratch - you feel like someone has scratched you.
- Your new i phone drops from your hand - you miss a few heartbeats.
- Someone shouts at you in the public - you get humiliated and disturbed and wish that the person who shouted at you will never understand your situation.
- Your boss fires you - you get stressed and depressed
- You do not get the promotion that was due and you so thoroughly deserved - you blame the way your organisation functions
- You get stuck in a traffic jam - you blame the government for not doing enough.....
..........and the list is endless...it keeps going on...in every such situation and in every such incident - you lose your most prized possession - "Happiness". But did you lose it of your own? Or someone or something else was responsible for the loss of your happiness?
The below video link should clarify a few doubts...and give the power back in your hands - the power to always remain happy !!
Cheers,
Manoj Arora
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